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So I met my first, well, my only girlfriend when I was 19 years old, and I was a singing waiter and she was a s...

The fact that I was 17 years old didn’t put me off from watching it.

“If there’s somebody in there from work, I could end up getting beaten up or sacked.”

Not only did those words cut me in half, but I began to worry that if the police raided the bar, my boyfriend and I would be in serious trouble because of my age.

Although at 19 years old, it wasn’t against the law for me to go into a bar, I questioned if it was against the law for me to hold hands with another man in a public place.

Terrified of the consequences of entering a world where people would have welcomed and accepted us for who we were, we drove off and went home.

I don’t remember exactly when, but I think it was either late high school or maybe right after. Contact me if you’d like to share the details in a guest post. Todd Gloria’s Coming Out Journey Gives Hope to Others

Hi, my name is Todd Gloria, and I was born and raised in San Diego.

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My copy of the paper arrived in a plain brown envelope. No such luck.

My hands shook as I took the envelope up to my bedroom. I kept looking behind to check if anyone was following me. One of the memories I have, which definitely turned my life around, was when I went to a local party. After all, unlike my straight friends, it was still illegal for me (as a gay man) to have sex with a same-sex partner until I was 21.

Precisely one week later, I waited patiently for the postman to arrive.

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    Hi, I’m Daniel, from Houston, Texas.

    On the front was a picture of the singing duo Chasand Dave.

    Picking up the newspaper, I flicked through it, pretending not to notice the picture and taking little, if any, notice of who was around me.

    Towards the back of the newspaper, I stumbled upon the advertisement section, and one of the adverts immediately got my attention.

    It was a significant point in my life that opened a door and invited me to step through.

    As long as I can remember, I knew that I was different. In all cases, the person has found the story good enough and wants to share it, so here they are.



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    Hello, my name is Alfred Engstrand. Like any red-blooded male at 17, my hormones made my brain think of little else but wanting to (putting it mildly) get laid.

    By the time I reached my 19th birthday, I already had what I had considered a boyfriend.

    I’m from Pearland, Texas. And I went there w... I’m from San Antonio, Texas.