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His father left books around the house showing macabre photos of people with venereal diseases, which traumatized Dalí and made him terrified of physical contact and of the female genitalia. The title character in Doña Rosita the Spinster (1935) dreams of having a boyfriend, while The House of Bernarda Alba tackles five sisters’ desire for freedom from a tyrannical mother.

Lorca centered many plays on women because he loved spending time with them and he couldn’t write openly about men’s desires.

Lorca called it “the most beautiful figure of all the art that is seen with the eyes.” He sent Dalí two homoerotic drawings and a photograph of himself evoking this saint. Amid a bustling metropolis, Lorca struggled with profound loneliness. His paintbrush and his hand were equal extensions of his body—he counted anything that came out of either as creative expression.

Desperate for attention, he let his hair grow and glued it to his skull with varnish and used his mother’s eyeliner to make himself look like Rudolph Valentino, the silent movie star who represented the ideal of male beauty at this time. When he painted a local sculpture of San Miguel as an ephebe dressed in lace to represent the city of Granada (in 1932), he received a huge backlash from city officers and friends such as Buñuel.

San Sebastián became a crucial reference in the creative dialogue between Lorca and Dalí.

But one thing’s true: love was there. When his beloved mother died of uterine cancer when he was 16, the message was clear: women’s bodies were monstrous, his own was not to be trusted, and sex was dangerous—and shameful.

If his romantic life was destined to be tortured, it didn’t stop him from making a few attempts at intimacy.

The infatuation was apparently mutual, as Dalí’s paintings from that period depict Lorca obsessively.

Lorca was convinced that Dalí was also gay but afraid to accept it. He took charge of his own destiny, living out his sexuality freely and starting to laugh again. He tried to seduce Dalí with a long poem titled “Ode to Salvador Dalí” (1926) in which he addresses him as “Dalí of the olive-skinned voice” while imagining them living together as a couple.

Many of his plays are coded allegories about the repression of sexuality. He created an astonishing drawing while he was in New York in 1929 in which a young, androgynous Ganymede-cum-cabin boy is grabbed by a rough Zeus/sailor while a woman screams at them, scandalized. After Dalí first laid eyes on Lorca, he wrote: “The ultimate poetic phenomenon suddenly emerged before me in sublime flesh and blood vibrating with a thousand fireworks.”

Despite their divergent personalities—Dalí was very shy, while Lorca was described as “a fountain of laughter and music”—and even though Lorca was 25 years old and Dalí just nineteen, they became instant friends, united by shared passions and struggles.

At 10, he ran headlong into a wall at school until blood ran down his head, “because no one was paying attention to me.” His father’s idea of instilling safe sex practices in his preadolescent son was to show him wildly graphic images of syphilis-infected females that scarred him for life. He felt an intense physical love for me, not platonic.

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Fearing that an obsession with excrement made him too much of a deviant, René Magritte and the poet Paul Éluard visited Dalí in his beloved Cadaqués. The other theme in Lorca’s plays is unfulfilled desire for something one can’t have.